by Dwayne Phillips
We often give power and control to our surroundings. This change of words returns those to me.
I have heard it many times and said it a few times. Things like:
I am under a lot of stress.
This is a stressful situation.
The stress here is too much.
Let’s look at the second statement a little closer [...]
Entries Tagged as 'Choose'
Stressful Situation - Another Reframe
March 4th, 2010 · No Comments
Tags: Change · Choose · Reframe · Writing
Magic Words: “For Now”
February 11th, 2010 · 2 Comments
by Dwayne Phillips
Our works need not be final; we need not be finished with anything. Using a couple of magic words, we can give ourselves a choice of coming back to our work.
Consider the statement:
I am finished with this.
Writers often say this. (I’ll use the example of writers and their writing. I could mentionĀ [...]
Tags: Choose · Magic · Writing
Paying the Tuition and (Maybe) Getting the Education
January 6th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips
Life is full of bad experiences. There is always something that can be learned in each experience. The bad experience is a form of tuition. The learning is a form of education. Nothing guarantees we get the education with the tuition. The education, however, is there for our choosing.
College is pretty simple: you [...]
Tags: Change · Choose · General Systems Thinking · Learning
Choose to Learn
December 3rd, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips
Given any endeavor, their are circumstances beyond our control. These circumstances can keep us from achieving something. One thing that is always in our control is our own learning. We can all choose to learn.
I work hard. I work smart. There are days when I believe that I can achieve what I imagine [...]