by Dwayne Phillips As much as we might wish otherwise, reality applies to us, too. I was recently speaking with a group of people age 13 to 60. My question was: How far back can you remember? The near-unanimous answer was, “age three.” Some people could vaguely remember some things that happened when they were [...]
Reality Applies to Us, Too
October 27th, 2011 · No Comments
Tags: Culture · Judgment · Logic · Magic
Clearing the Mind of Distractions
May 13th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Frenzied paralysis – so many things in my mind that I cannot do any of them. I make a list to clear my mind and move from paralysis to action. I can’t think. Well, that’s not true. I guess the problem is that I am thinking too much. Well, that is not [...]
Tags: Design · Ideas · Journal · Magic · Notebook · Reframe · Systems · Writing
Magic Words: “For Now”
February 11th, 2010 · 2 Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Our works need not be final; we need not be finished with anything. Using a couple of magic words, we can give ourselves a choice of coming back to our work. Consider the statement: I am finished with this. Writers often say this. (I’ll use the example of writers and their writing. [...]
Tags: Choose · Magic · Writing
The Magic Eraser – The Word “But”
January 14th, 2010 · 1 Comment
by Dwayne Phillips In a common usage, the word “but” erases all that has been said previously. This is a writing nicety. It is also a bad way to confuse conversation in the workplace. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but you need to check with me on things like this. Quick, without looking back, [...]
Tags: Communication · Magic · Writing
Magic Words: Up Until Now
December 21st, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips There are words we can say that change situations and sometimes even our lives. “Up until now” are a few words that can erase reputations from our past. I have learned a few magic words through the years. Say these words aloud, and the situation changes. A few magic words are “up [...]
Tags: Change · Learning · Magic
Learning the Magic Words
July 27th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Most organizations have “magic words.” Utter these words and things happen. If you don’t know the words, work slows and frustration rises. None of this makes any sense, but nonsense continues to exist and often thrives. Years ago, a colleague who lived in a nearby rural area wanted to construct a building [...]
Tags: Communication · Culture · Learning · Magic
shortcut: A Definition
July 13th, 2009 · 1 Comment
by Dwayne Phillips Shortcuts have always led to more work for me, not less. The past two weeks have emphasized that to me. They have also taught my a new definition to “shortcut.” Sorry, there is no magic here. Wiktionary.org: A path between two points that is faster than the commonly used paths; A method [...]
Tags: Culture · Magic · Management · People