{"id":1009,"date":"2011-12-26T01:58:24","date_gmt":"2011-12-26T06:58:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=1009"},"modified":"2011-12-13T10:09:01","modified_gmt":"2011-12-13T15:09:01","slug":"my-hated-yellow-shirt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2011\/12\/my-hated-yellow-shirt\/","title":{"rendered":"My Hated Yellow Shirt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n<p><strong>Often, a seemingly illogical action has logic when something else is in play. One way to learn of what else is in play is to ask.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I have a yellow shirt. Someone gave this to me a few years ago. I hate the yellow shirt because I think the color is awful. I wear the yellow shirt almost every weekend.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s look at these two items one after the other:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>I hate the yellow shirt.<\/li>\n<li>I wear it almost every weekend.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>How do I reconcile 1. and 2.? Simple, if I wear the shirt often, it will wear out, and I will throw it away. The hated yellow shirt will be gone.<\/p>\n<p>This makes sense if you accept something else:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I don&#8217;t throw away clothes until they are worn out.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This last item, my frugality (a.k.a., being cheap), makes sense to me, but may be seen as silly to many.<\/p>\n<p><em>This entire situation is an example of something that seems to have no explanation having a logical explanation if there is another item in play<\/em>. Hence,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>if a person is cheap, they will wear a hated shirt often.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There is a big danger in this. My wife might think that I love that color yellow and replace the hated shirt soon after it is worn out and discarded. It would be easy for her to misinterpret my actions. I hope to prevent this by telling her often why I wear the hated shirt. She always replies with, &#8220;just throw it away. It was a gift, you didn&#8217;t spend a penny on it, and you won&#8217;t be wasting money by trashing it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There is much right in her words. Maybe one day&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips Often, a seemingly illogical action has logic when something else is in play. One way to learn of what else is in play is to ask. I have a yellow shirt. Someone gave this to me a few years ago. I hate the yellow shirt because I think the color is awful. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,56],"tags":[139,177],"class_list":["post-1009","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-family","tag-culture","tag-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1009","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1009"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1009\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1010,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1009\/revisions\/1010"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}