{"id":116,"date":"2009-05-21T01:00:27","date_gmt":"2009-05-21T06:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=116"},"modified":"2009-05-19T18:28:03","modified_gmt":"2009-05-19T23:28:03","slug":"grandparents-and-other-managers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2009\/05\/grandparents-and-other-managers\/","title":{"rendered":"Grandparents and (other) Managers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being a grandfather has taught me a few things about managing work. How can a baby teach an adult so much in so little time?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/takingawalk\/2008\/11\/pause-a-grandson\/\">I am a grandfather; I have been one for 6 1\/2 wonderful months<\/a>. I see my grandson on average every three to seven days (funny how I can be so engineering-analytical about something like this). This frequency gives me a good perspective on his growth and changes. If I saw him every day, I might not notice the changes. If I saw him once a month, well that just wouldn&#8217;t be good. Time gives me a good perspective, and so does my experience as I had three sons of my own.<\/p>\n<p>I think that I use my perspective and experience well. I give my son and his wife (the most wonderful daughter-in-law in the world) all the advice they request &#8211; and no more.<\/p>\n<p>I also manage projects and systems from time to time. I see the work of people on a project team on average every two to five days. This frequency gives me a good perspective on the growth in the work being accomplished. If I examined the work of team members every day, I might not notice the changes in their work. If I saw their progress once a month, well that just wouldn&#8217;t be good. Time gives me a good perspective, and so does my experience working on many projects through the years.<\/p>\n<p>I think that I use my perspective and experience well. I, er, I give the team advice. How often? Well, if you are a manager, try these questions:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>What do you do?<\/p>\n<p>How often do you examine the work of the people on your team?<\/p>\n<p>Do you give all the advice you have?<\/p>\n<p>Do you only give the advice requested?<\/p>\n<p>Do you give all the advice requested?<\/p>\n<p>Do you hold back some knowledge so the team learns to work it out on their own?<\/p>\n<p>Do you give all the advice you decide they need?<\/p>\n<p>Are the some other variations on giving advice?<\/p>\n<p>Is this a stupid comparison?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I have managed some important projects that involved hundreds of millions of dollars and the lives and livelihoods of dozens of people. I have never managed a project that was as important to me as my grandson.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps I am doing this thing right.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps I didn&#8217;t do so well on all those project managing jobs.<\/p>\n<p>Several things that I do realize on this grandparent endeavor. My son is <em>very<\/em> important to me. My daughter-in-law is <em>very<\/em> important to me. My grandson is <em>very<\/em> important to me. I care a lot about how well on do on this one.<\/p>\n<p>I am approaching other projects in a different manner now than I did in the past.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips Being a grandfather has taught me a few things about managing work. How can a baby teach an adult so much in so little time? I am a grandfather; I have been one for 6 1\/2 wonderful months. 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