{"id":1497,"date":"2013-09-30T01:26:11","date_gmt":"2013-09-30T06:26:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=1497"},"modified":"2013-09-17T07:31:23","modified_gmt":"2013-09-17T12:31:23","slug":"do-we-actually-disagree","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2013\/09\/do-we-actually-disagree\/","title":{"rendered":"Do We Actually Disagree?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n<p><strong>Disagreements often fall under the cliche, &#8220;we are in violent agreement.&#8221; Go past the quick decision and converse with the other person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Joe: I disagree with you.<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Really?<\/p>\n<p>Joe: Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Are you sure?<\/p>\n<p>Joe: Yes<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Let&#8217;s step through this to ensure that we disagree.<\/p>\n<p>Joe: ?<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Let me try to understand you better.<\/p>\n<p>Joe: I can see where that would help you.<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Yes, it would. Perhaps we actually agree.<\/p>\n<p>Joe: ?<\/p>\n<p>Moe: You are a smart person. I would be happy if I learned that we agreed.<\/p>\n<p>Joe: ?<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Let&#8217;s start with what I heard you say.<\/p>\n<p>Joe: ?<\/p>\n<p>Moe: Sometimes my thinking clouds my hearing. Let me tell you what I heard, and then you correct me if I am mistaken.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips Disagreements often fall under the cliche, &#8220;we are in violent agreement.&#8221; Go past the quick decision and converse with the other person. Joe: I disagree with you. Moe: Really? Joe: Yes. Moe: Are you sure? Joe: Yes Moe: Let&#8217;s step through this to ensure that we disagree. Joe: ? Moe: Let me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[154],"class_list":["post-1497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication","tag-communication"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1497"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1497\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1498,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1497\/revisions\/1498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}