{"id":2655,"date":"2018-05-03T01:53:18","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T06:53:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=2655"},"modified":"2018-04-21T10:02:04","modified_gmt":"2018-04-21T15:02:04","slug":"flowers-chocolate-and-accomplishing-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2018\/05\/flowers-chocolate-and-accomplishing-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Flowers, Chocolate, and Accomplishing Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sometimes the way to accomplish more sooner is to acknowledge the person and wait until later.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A short but true story:<\/p>\n<p>We were short of persons in one particular skill category at work. Work piled up. We were waiting, mostly impatiently. Finally, a new person arrives in that skill category. All of us earnest (impatient) persons with all the work piled high are anxious to race in to the new person&#8217;s office and tell her why our work was more important than anyone else&#8217;s and&#8230;actually we wanted her to recognize that each of us was more important than the rest, but that is another topic for another day.<\/p>\n<p>Anyways, on her first day at work, each person raced into her office with a mountain of work. &#8220;I am so-and-so,&#8221; each would proclaim. &#8220;You have to work on my project right now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At mid-morning. I walked into her office with a vase of flowers and a box of chocolates. &#8220;Hello,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Welcome. We are happy to have you with us. Here are a few tokens of welcome. You and I will be working together on a few projects. Take a few days to settle into your new office and meet everyone. I&#8217;ll be back later this week and we can discuss the projects then. Have a good day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Guess whose work was accomplished first? If you haven&#8217;t guessed by now, mine was.<\/p>\n<p>That actually occurred a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away. Flowers and chocolate may not be appropriate in our world today. What is still appropriate is acknowledging the other person as a person and granting time and space.<\/p>\n<p>Try it sometime, perhaps tomorrow or later this week.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes the way to accomplish more sooner is to acknowledge the person and wait until later. A short but true story: We were short of persons in one particular skill category at work. Work piled up. We were waiting, mostly impatiently. Finally, a new person arrives in that skill category. All of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[119,116,67],"tags":[120,228,187],"class_list":["post-2655","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adults","category-authentic","category-work","tag-adults","tag-authentic","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2655","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2655"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2655\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2656,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2655\/revisions\/2656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2655"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2655"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2655"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}