{"id":2771,"date":"2018-11-12T01:11:02","date_gmt":"2018-11-12T06:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=2771"},"modified":"2018-10-27T08:20:46","modified_gmt":"2018-10-27T13:20:46","slug":"but-mom-said","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2018\/11\/but-mom-said\/","title":{"rendered":"But Mom said&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n<p><strong>We can&#8217;t seem to shake this childish manipulation. Ask around enough, and someone will provide the desired answer. And it won&#8217;t be my fault.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I suppose we all did this as children. If Dad said, &#8220;No,&#8221; we asked Mom because there was a chance she would say, &#8220;Yes.&#8221; Childish behavior. We all grew out of that, right? Sigh.<\/p>\n<p>A few words regarding the seeker, i.e., the one running around trying to find the desired answer. I want to do something. What&#8217;s more, I want permission to do it. Hence, if it all falls apart, someone is there to share the blame. I mean, they said it would be okay, okay?<\/p>\n<p>A few words about the permission givers. I am tired. I had a hard day. I am trying to watch something that takes my mind off of things that require my mind&#8217;s attention. Why are you asking me to engage my mind again. Can&#8217;t you see that it is mind-resting time? Go ask someone else. Their mind must be rested and engage-able.<\/p>\n<p>We are all seeking to spread any blame that needs to be spread. Rare is the person who stands and proclaims, &#8220;This is me. This is mine. If this doesn&#8217;t work, blame me 100%.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips We can&#8217;t seem to shake this childish manipulation. Ask around enough, and someone will provide the desired answer. And it won&#8217;t be my fault. I suppose we all did this as children. If Dad said, &#8220;No,&#8221; we asked Mom because there was a chance she would say, &#8220;Yes.&#8221; Childish behavior. We all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[297,119,265,339],"tags":[322,120,266,341],"class_list":["post-2771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-accountability","category-adults","category-childhood","category-mistakes","tag-accountability","tag-adults","tag-childhood","tag-mistakes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2771"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2772,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2771\/revisions\/2772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}