{"id":3455,"date":"2021-09-09T01:12:00","date_gmt":"2021-09-09T06:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=3455"},"modified":"2021-08-02T07:22:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-02T12:22:05","slug":"you-should-not-have-told-me-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2021\/09\/you-should-not-have-told-me-that\/","title":{"rendered":"You Should Not Have Told Me That"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If you want something in return for something, state that contract first.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Guess what? blah blah blah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: Oh my goodness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: You can&#8217;t tell anyone what I just told you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: Why not?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Because.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: You should have stated the non-disclosure agreement before telling me blah blah blah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Well, you can&#8217;t tell anyone what I just told you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: I didn&#8217;t give you permission to tell me something that put me in a predicament.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Well, you can&#8217;t betray my trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: What trust? You just told me something that you shouldn&#8217;t have told me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Well, I need you to help me here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: You should have asked for help first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person A: Silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Person B: I will do what I think is best with this blah blah blah. That may not be what you think is best.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips If you want something in return for something, state that contract first. Person A: Guess what? blah blah blah. Person B: Oh my goodness. Person A: You can&#8217;t tell anyone what I just told you. Person B: Why not? Person A: Because. Person B: You should have stated the non-disclosure agreement before [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[449,277,286,335,231],"tags":[450,278,287,336,232],"class_list":["post-3455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-agreement","category-commitment","category-conversation","category-ethics","category-trust","tag-agreement","tag-commitment","tag-conversation","tag-ethics","tag-trust"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3455"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3456,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3455\/revisions\/3456"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}