{"id":3618,"date":"2022-04-04T01:46:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T06:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/?p=3618"},"modified":"2022-03-06T07:53:40","modified_gmt":"2022-03-06T12:53:40","slug":"another-silly-silence-agreement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/2022\/04\/another-silly-silence-agreement\/","title":{"rendered":"Another Silly Silence Agreement"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">by Dwayne Phillips<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>We seem to create silly rules about silence. This is another one of those, &#8220;What happens here stays here.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We create silly rules about silence. I wrote about one earlier in this blog, &#8220;Silence is agreement.&#8221; Nonsense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another that just came to mind is, &#8220;What is said here stays here.&#8221; That permits &#8220;open discussion&#8221; without fear of retribution or something or other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nonsense. If someone in this discussion admits to a crime I am not allowed to call the police and report it? Nonsense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course no one would admit to a crime in these discussions. Really? Of course they would. People admit to all sorts of odd things when they have a belief that no one will say anything to anyone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Watch our language. That includes saying things like, &#8220;What is said here stays here.&#8221; Some people interpret things literally.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Dwayne Phillips We seem to create silly rules about silence. This is another one of those, &#8220;What happens here stays here.&#8221; We create silly rules about silence. I wrote about one earlier in this blog, &#8220;Silence is agreement.&#8221; Nonsense. Another that just came to mind is, &#8220;What is said here stays here.&#8221; That permits [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[297,119,449,25,419],"tags":[322,120,450,147,420],"class_list":["post-3618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-accountability","category-adults","category-agreement","category-meetings","category-talk","tag-accountability","tag-adults","tag-agreement","tag-meetings","tag-talk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3618"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3619,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3618\/revisions\/3619"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dwaynephillips.net\/workingup\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}