by Dwayne Phillips Why aren’t people taking me seriously? Why aren’t people paying attention to me? If I want people to take and my group seriously, I should: do CMMI do PMP do ITIL sit at the keyboard and write everyday sit at the table and draw everyday take photos everyday play my instrument everyday […]
Entries Tagged as 'Adults'
If You Want People to Take You Seriously
November 19th, 2015 · No Comments
Tags: Adults · Change · Excuses · Expectations · People
Change and Why Those Other Guys Just Don’t Get It
November 9th, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Why don’t those other guys see what is so obvious to us? Because they didn’t have the same experience we did, and we don’t want to do the work required. We go through a changing experience, i.e., an experience that changes our concept of something. (I use the word “we” because it […]
Being Everyone’s Dad
October 26th, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Too often, some of us take on the role of caretaker of everyone around us, i.e., we try to e everyone’s dad. Such is folly. Sometimes, people are struggling at work. No problem. I will step in and H E L P them. I will take care of the problems that seem […]
Tags: Adults · Competence · Family · Management
Adults Coloring, Yes Coloring Books
October 22nd, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips In an attempt to go back to reality, adults are returning to coloring books. Everyone has a smartphone, a tablet, a computer, or all of these. You move the mouse, the cursor moves, and lines and colors and all that appear on the screen. Press control-P and the printer produces the paper […]
Tags: Adults · Authentic · Breathe · Writing
Let Your Friends Test Your Work
October 12th, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips There are many testing strategies available. There is some benefit to letting close friends do the testing. I don’t advise this in all cases, but sometimes it is good to let your close friends test your work. This can hold for: software writing presentations singing clothing (what I choose to wear) One […]
If We Tell Him, He’ll Get Mad
October 8th, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips People are free to choose their reactions to events. I am included in “people.” We all are. I don’t know how many times I have heard the phrase that is the title of this post. There are countless variations: You tell him that! That’s easy to say when s/he isn’t around. The […]
Tags: Adults · Breathe · Choose · Communication
The Kids can See
August 3rd, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Kids today are anxious to move one to something better. That frustrates us old folks. We have a solution, if we choose it. This is one of things that bothers us old people about young adults: They want to move up and move on and do something else (too quickly) They haven’t […]
Tags: Adapting · Adults · Agility
Childhood, Adulthood, and Privacy
July 2nd, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Too often I hear adult-to-child language used in discussions of adult privacy. If you aren’t doing anything wrong, you shouldn’t care if I’m watching. This is what parents tell small children. I heard it often as a child and I said it often as a parent of then small children. It seems […]
Tags: Adults · Change · Communication