by Dwayne Phillips We often give power and control to our surroundings. This change of words returns those to me. I have heard it many times and said it a few times. Things like: I am under a lot of stress. This is a stressful situation. The stress here is too much. Let’s look at […]
Entries Tagged as 'Change'
Stressful Situation – Another Reframe
March 4th, 2010 · No Comments
Tags: Change · Choose · Reframe · Writing
Paying the Tuition and (Maybe) Getting the Education
January 6th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Life is full of bad experiences. There is always something that can be learned in each experience. The bad experience is a form of tuition. The learning is a form of education. Nothing guarantees we get the education with the tuition. The education, however, is there for our choosing. College is pretty […]
Tags: Change · Choose · General Systems Thinking · Learning
Change the Future with “Unless”
January 4th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips It is possible to predict the future on projects. It is also possible to change the future on projects. Knowing this second property and how to state it can make a big difference to project stakeholders. It is possible to predict the future. Given a system-building project that has been planned properly, […]
Tags: Change · Communication · Estimation · Management
Magic Words: Up Until Now
December 21st, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips There are words we can say that change situations and sometimes even our lives. “Up until now” are a few words that can erase reputations from our past. I have learned a few magic words through the years. Say these words aloud, and the situation changes. A few magic words are “up […]
Tags: Change · Learning · Magic
Adapting and Adaptability
November 16th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Situations change and people adapt to those changes. Has adapting to chance taken away your ability to adapt? Change is constant Okay, that is neither original nor brilliant. It does, however, describe my experiences. Groups of people adapt Another observation that is neither original nor brilliant. What many people fail to observe […]
Tags: Adapting · Change · General Systems Thinking
Life on the Road; Life at Home
November 9th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Traveling – living in and out of motels – is different from living in a home. This differences points to lessons that can improve home life. I recently spent five weeks on the road. Motel after motel, night after night. In the past, I have had jobs where I traveled two and […]
Spending to Reduce (???)
October 26th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Projects to reduce work, production, or consumption should reduce costs. This corresponding reduction in costs, however, rarely occurs. Instead, an increase in cost often happens. Please be attentive to what you are doing and watch for this contrary behavior. There are many things than many people want to reduce. Consider body weight. […]
Tags: Change · Culture · People
Familiar, Comfortable, and (Perhaps) Risk
October 5th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips The familiar is comfortable. The comfort, however, sometimes hides risk and impending doom. Take care. I have been on the road for two weeks walking mostly through rural Alabama. This weekend I am in Tuscaloosa. This is a university town, so it differs from most of the places I have been. I […]
Tags: Change · Communication · Culture · Risk
Staying on Task
August 13th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We spend too much time avoiding some tasks. They are not interesting, praiseworthy, or worthy of note. We simply cannot stay on task. I recommend changing tasks – at least temporarily. There are many benefits to changing tasks. Some benefits apply to the original task. All the benefits apply to me. I […]
Tags: Change · Health · Learning · Time
Goodbye Cursive
July 29th, 2009 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Handwriting is not dead. It lives on despite the computer age. Cursive, however, is on the way out, and I for one am happy to see it go. (Start writing comments about how bad a person I am) Time magazine mourns the death of handwriting. That is a nice headline, but I […]
Tags: Change · Communication · Culture · Writing