by Dwayne Phillips When you feel something tugging at you on the inside, you have hit a personal rule. Recently, I had three gentlemen riding around with me in my van. We were visiting other office buildings in our area. Our first stop was for lunch at an bagel place. We had sandwiches and soup, […]
Entries Tagged as 'Choose'
Things Tugging at Me and Rules
July 16th, 2012 · No Comments
Tags: Change · Choose · Culture
The Face of Bad Things
June 18th, 2012 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Do people associate your appearance with bad tidings? There is another way. Let’s oversimplify and divide the world of bosses into two categories: 1. those bosses who only visit when something is wrong and 2. those bosses who visit everyday to chat about the weather I have worked for both and prefer […]
Tags: Choose · Management
Hurry Up and Wait – Reframe
May 21st, 2012 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips It seems we still do this old time waster – hurry up and wait. Let’s try to reframe it into something more productive and creative. I am writing this blog while waiting. I had been working feverishly on something and completed the task. Now…well, you know… Hurry up and wait Let’s see […]
Tags: Change · Choose · Reframe
We All Want Cake (so give everyone cake)
February 6th, 2012 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We seem to believe that special things are for special people. And we all want to be a special person. We can employ this idea to surround ourselves with special people. A few years ago I was at a high school track meet. There was this little girl at the concession stand. […]
Be Prepared to be Unprepared
March 28th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I have learned that I am not capable of being prepared for everything. Hence, I have learned to be prepared for being unprepared. I often speak in front of people, lead discussions, teach classes, and generally attend meetings where people ask me questions. I am often unprepared for what people ask. I […]
Tags: Choose · Culture · Expectations · Learning · Meetings
I Like This More Than That
February 24th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We do the things we do because we choose to do them from among all the other choices we have. These choices can be light hearted and they can be rather dark and scary. I learned a few things about myself in the past couple of weeks. For one, I like writing […]
Tags: Change · Choose · Excuses · Observation
Dependably Undependable
November 18th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Some people are undependable. Most of the time, I can choose to work with them or not. My choice can tell me much about myself. I know people who fit the title of this post. If they tell me they will be someplace at nine o’clock, I am almost certain they will […]
Tags: Adapting · Choose · Differences · Excuses · Learning · People · Reframe
Tradeoffs
September 9th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Tradeoffs involve decisions. You choose that one thing is more important than another. This is not popular, especially in public projects. Last week I saw a post about people wanting to build high-speed train lines between cities. This would reduce automobile traffic between the cities, provide construction jobs, provide operations and maintenance […]
More Difficult People, Reframing, and Changing Me
September 6th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips In an earlier post, I discussed difficult people and reframing statements. Once again, I meet a difficult person. Once again, I can choose how frame the situation, and once again I can choose how to live and work. I worked with a different set of people this week. Some of those people […]
Tags: Change · Choose · Reframe · Work
Location (In)Dependence
March 30th, 2010 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes we feel that we cannot do what we want to do unless we go somewhere else. Most of the time, however, we can do just fine right where we are physically. We merely have to move mentally and emotionally. I follow the Location Independent Professional blog and a few that are […]