by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes I fill the role of the “just notice-er.” Perhaps that should be an official title in systems development. I was preparing a demonstration of software we developed in house. Something wasn’t happening as I expected. I asked a couple of the programmers to look over my shoulder. “Look at this,” I […]
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I’m not Testing, Just Noticing
December 21st, 2017 · No Comments
Tags: Communication · Conversation · Notice · Systems · Testing
I Don’t Want to Hurt Your Feelings, but…
December 14th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Drop the “but.” It erases all previous words. Use a period instead. I said: I don’t want to hurt you feelings, but, we need to change how we do things here. He heard: we, actually YOU, need to change how we do things here. Funny how the word “but” works in conversation. […]
Tags: Communication · Conversation · Word
Stop Listening, Don’t Wonder
December 4th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I write this one with some hesitancy as there is always something to be learned by continually listening. Sometimes, however, listen for meta messages, not the message as the messenger is clearly confused. Sometimes the best thing to do is stop listening—for now. And also, don’t waste time and energy wondering about […]
Tags: Communication
Let’s Draw a Picture
November 6th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips An old technique that always surfaces confusion and moves us towards clarity. Me: Let’s draw a picture of this so I can understand it better. Person A: We don’t need to waste time with that. We all know what it is. …a little while later… Person A: See, we set it up […]
Tags: Analysis · Communication · Learning
An Interaction Exercise
November 2nd, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Here is a simple exercise you can use with your team to learn something about how well you work together. Step 1: Get a deck of playing cards. Step 2: Hand every person on your team some cards. Hand some person a couple of cards and hand some persons a dozen cards. […]
Tags: Communication · Consulting · Group · Management · Meetings
Thank You Fake News and Social Media, We Needed a New Excuse
October 26th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Why disdain fake news and social media? Let’s embrace it for what it gives us—a new excuse. I recently learned that fake news on social media controls the world. All money flows in a direction it flows because it is directed by fake news. All elections are won by fake news purveyors. […]
Tags: Communication · Excuses
Say it Aloud First (in a safe place)
October 16th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Advice on preparing to bring a concept to others. I have a great idea! I have a informed observation! I have something that others should hear or read! It’s obviously worthwhile. What should I do first? Say it aloud (in a safe place). There is something about saying the words aloud that […]
Tags: Communication · Ideas · Learning
Jerry Pournelle
September 18th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Someone who had a big influence on my life has passed away. “The Mote in God’s Eye.” Star Wars was in theaters, and everyone was enthralled. The science fiction community tried to fit in with Luke, Han, and the rest, often in vain. Every science fiction commentator had their own list of, […]
Tags: Communication · Computing · Systems · Teaching · Writing
Write the User Manual First
September 4th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I review an old, and seemingly forgotten, technique for building systems in which we fully describe what a system will be and do. Once upon a time in a galaxy far, far away… Maybe not that long ago, but still…there was a technique for building systems wherein we wrote the user manual […]
Tags: Communication · Design · Expectations · Requirements
If you don’t know where you are going, any road will do
August 31st, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips This paraphrase from Through the Looking Class continues to reign in systems development. The title of this post is a famous paraphrase from the classic Through the Looking Glass. I live it most days. The conversation goes something like this: Me: The system won’t do such-and-such. Builder: Of course not. It wasn’t […]
Tags: Adults · Agility · Commitment · Communication · Scope · Systems · Work