by Dwayne Phillips For some reason, we often run away from the words that we want most to convey. I work with persons who are trying to write. They show me their draft, we talk, we walk through the words, and I ask questions. The questions usually lead to grimaces and twisted expressions, struggled breathing, […]
Entries Tagged as 'Communication'
Okay, Write Those Words
December 20th, 2021 · No Comments
Tags: Adults · Brevity · Clarity · Communication · Word · Writing
People Say That Because…
November 25th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We often say things simply because we have heard others say those things. We are an odd lot. People say that because… they heard other people say that. And the other people said it with great confidence and bravado. Hence, it must be true, right? “Half of marriages end in divorce.” That […]
Tags: Appearances · Communication · Error · Expectations · Judgment · Reality
Do You Want to Communicate?
November 22nd, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Of course we want to communicate. That is a basic. Nevertheless, here is a small test to measure the actual desire to communicate. Here is a quick test to measure a person’s desire to communicate to others. Here is a blank piece of paper. Here is a pencil. Write three things (plus […]
Tags: Authentic · Choose · Clarity · Communication · Growth · Testing · Writing
The Document is a Person
October 28th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Some persons know what they want, but they don’t have the resources to tell me. Perhaps they don’t know what they want. Perhaps they have many other reasons for passing me to another person. Perhaps I should just stay away. Do you want to know what I want? Talk to Mr. ABC. […]
Tags: Communication · Excuses · Listening · Management
Emergency Operations Centers
October 25th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Most “Emergency Operations Centers” function to show that the emergency operations center has electricity. Does that describe yours? A recent serious weather event caused me to interact with an Emergency Operations Center or EOC. The website for that place proclaimed quite proudly how it was built to withstand such serious weather events. […]
Tags: Accountability · Communication · Emergency · Purpose · Systems
The Government
August 23rd, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I guess we will never stop putting individuals into a group and attributing the actions of some individuals to an entire group. Hence, we discuss “the government.” I have been a citizen of the United States since birth. I was an employee of the United States Federal government for 28 years. The […]
Tags: Accountability · Communication · Government · Journal
Why Persons Don’t Become Vaccinated and How to Convince Them to be Vaccinated
August 19th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Many persons want many other persons to become vaccinated. Their methods, however, are achieving the opposite. “Become vaccinated,” is an oft-heard cry. (Actually, I read “get vaccinated” which brings cringes of pain to those of us who know the meaning of words.) And there are many who do not get the vaccine […]
Tags: Breathe · Communication · Conversation · Health · Listening · Patience · Please · Respect · Science · Virus
Thank You for Helping, but Enough is Enough
August 2nd, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Kind, caring, helping persons tend to keep going to be more kind, caring, and helpful. Delete the last part. I have met many kind, caring, and helpful persons, who love others. They speak and write and teach in all forms to convey helpful information. They want to be helpful, to ensure others […]
Tags: Breathe · Brevity · Clarity · Communication · Help · Respect · Time
This is not the Last
July 29th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips There will be many more opportunities to convey something. I don’t need to “slip it in” today and ruin today’s message. This will not be the last blog post. This will not be the last essay. This will not be the last speech. This will not be the last public appearance. This […]
Tags: Calendar · Clarity · Communication · Patience · Time · Writing
Throw Away or Put Away (for now)
July 22nd, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We don’t have to “throw away” or discard ideas. We can always put them in a place to visit later. I have lots of ideas for writing, speaking, and generally contemplating. I don’t always have the time to use the ideas right now. That is fine. I save them for later, i.e., […]
Tags: Communication · Ideas · Journal · Knowledge · Library · Notebook · Writing