by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes I fill the role of the “just notice-er.” Perhaps that should be an official title in systems development. I was preparing a demonstration of software we developed in house. Something wasn’t happening as I expected. I asked a couple of the programmers to look over my shoulder. “Look at this,” I […]
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I’m not Testing, Just Noticing
December 21st, 2017 · No Comments
Tags: Communication · Conversation · Notice · Systems · Testing
I Don’t Want to Hurt Your Feelings, but…
December 14th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Drop the “but.” It erases all previous words. Use a period instead. I said: I don’t want to hurt you feelings, but, we need to change how we do things here. He heard: we, actually YOU, need to change how we do things here. Funny how the word “but” works in conversation. […]
Tags: Communication · Conversation · Word