Working Up

by Dwayne Phillips “I don’t know” and “I don’t want to say” are close cousins. They also carry much information if we are willing to listen. “I don’t know.” “I can’t say.” “I don’t want to say anything now as I may be divulging too much or incorrect information.” Would you please tell me something? […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Angst rules America this week. We have to do something. What can I change and how? Here is a set of questions to guide me. I write this in early June 2020. We have demonstrations and protests calling for justice and change. Perhaps I am too rational or practical, but I feel […]

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by Dwayne Phillips We seem to have confused ourselves once again. Perhaps simply asking a few questions would quell all the hyperventilating. Is it misinformation or disinformation? I confuse the two. Is either a real word or something a word inventor invented last week because he couldn’t find his dictionary and an appropriate word among […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes we don’t know something. There is a magic question that moves us from unknowing to knowing. Three words: when will you? Person A: How much will this project cost? Person B: I don’t know. Person A: When will you (know how much this project will cost)? Person B: I don’t know. […]

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by Dwayne Phillips The person asking the questions drives the conversation. Take care when inviting such. “Any questions?” asked many confident, but somewhat ignorant persons. The person asking the questions drives the conversation. “What about the color of the coffee cups?,” asked someone. “Er, but I want to show you our new fill-in-the-blank,” replied the […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Many of our problems already have solutions in waiting. And many of these are effective and inexpensive. Person A: My kid won’t stop chewing on fill-in-the-blank. Person B: Put a drop of fill-in-the-other-blank on it. It will taste bad, and the kid will stop chewing on it. Person A: Oh. … Person […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Some matters are certain in my mind. Others are a bit fuzzy behind a veil of doubt and cause me to argue with myself. There are times for both situations. Some things are fuzzy in my mind. I am not certain about them. I have to argue with myself. I start a […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Will the solution solve anything? Will the solution make the situation worse? “Let’s fix that!”—the cry of the optimistic solution-er. Will the solution improve our situation or only make it worse? A long-time colleague once described a situation he faced decades ago. Things at home were a mess. His wife and kids […]

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by Dwayne Phillips Questions often accompany learning. Not everyone, however, wants to provide me with opportunities to learn. I have two grandchildren. They are growing, changing, learning, and questioning everyday. It is a joy to observe and participate. They ask questions. My granddaughter, ever the good school student, even raises her hand sometimes when she […]

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by Dwayne Phillips I can’t seem to think of the right questions at the right time. There are a couple of questions that I can always ask to compensate. I sit with someone trying to learn something from them. I ask; they answer, and we repeat. Our time together ends. Fifteen minutes later, after we […]

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