by Dwayne Phillips Forget the old cliche about stupid questions. There ARE stupid questions, and hiring managers have asked me a bunch of them. I’ve been interviewed for jobs a dozen times There are stupid questions, and hiring managers ask them all the time. First, don’t ask the person to solve your problems. This is […]
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There ARE Stupid Questions
May 23rd, 2016 · No Comments
Tags: Adapting · Adults · Questions · Reaction · Work
Preparation
March 28th, 2016 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Probably the best preparation is to be prepared to be unprepared. I prepare. I plan. I am ready. I drive some people nuts with these habits. Somewhere along the line I learned that I was never prepared for everything. Hence, I became prepared for that, too. I learned to be prepared to […]
Tags: Adapting · Authentic · Process · Reaction
It’s Not the Event, It’s the Reaction
November 6th, 2014 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We don’t choose what happens in life. We do choose how we react. The title of this post is something that I’ve heard numerous times from consultant and author Jerry Weinberg. It seems that almost every day I trip over yet another example of this. The phone rings at 2 AM. Something […]
Hyperventilation, Hysteria, and Commitment
November 3rd, 2014 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Hyperventilation and hysteria are shows of emotion, not commitment. A recent post from Seth Godin reminded me of the above. I have been the victim of the “why aren’t you going berserk?” syndrome over the years. I was once reprimanded for concentrating on performing the work instead of yelling and screaming at […]
Tags: Choose · Communication · Differences · General Systems Thinking · Reaction