by Dwayne Phillips I don’t like surveillance. Why is someone surveilling me? It is sort of like testing a system I built. But are the testers out to get me or help me? I don’t like surveillance. I don’t like the police state. Why is someone surveilling me? I haven’t done anything. What about the […]
Entries Tagged as 'Respect'
Surveillance (or is it testing?)
December 8th, 2025 · No Comments
Tags: Alternatives · America · Culture · Drones · Government · Language · Respect · Technology
Reading the Fine Print
August 18th, 2025 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We have to read the fine print to understand our agreements. Why, however, is there fine print? I was reading through a contract document recently. I missed several things, just a couple of words buried in a 100-page document. I guess we call those things “the fine print.” Gotta’ read the fine […]
Tags: Agreement · Clarity · Concepts · Reading · Respect · Writing
Eye Contact or “Hey, I’m Over Here”
August 14th, 2025 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Another fundamental in speak to people seems to have been lost. I recently had the misfortune of sitting in a conference room for a period of time that was greater than three hours and somewhat less than an infinity of pain. I, and another couple dozen colleagues, was facing a giant screen […]
Tags: Authentic · Clarity · Communication · Culture · Respect
Feel Fill-In-The-Blank for Ten Minutes
December 30th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We have emotions. That is fine. Feel fill-in-the-blank fully and deeply for ten minutes. Get over it and move on. About ten years ago I was writing proposals for a company. The day before I had finished a couple of pages for a proposal. New orders came down. “We decided to change […]
Tags: Change · Chaos · Life · Problems · Respect · Time · Work
Punctuality and Interviews
December 26th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips There are many ways to show respect. One is simply to be one time for interviews and other meetings. I hope to be employed by an employers by the time this post is posted. I have interviewed with many people these last six months. Some folks are courteous and respectful. Some, well, […]
Tags: Accountability · Jobs · Meetings · Respect · Time
Society Media
November 11th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Forget the term “social media.” We are fussing about society media in which everyone in society has a tall soapbox on which to stand and shout. And many of us don’t like that. It’s not social media—it is Society Media, in which everyone can now shout as loud as Walter Cronkite used […]
Tags: Communication · Information · Learning · Listening · Respect · Teaching · Writing
Specifics Usually Mean the Opposite
July 29th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips When someone is quite specific in what they convey, they often mean the opposite. “I will inject some humor here,” often means that nothing funny will be said. “I don’t care about the money,” often means that I really do care about the money coming my way. “We are transparent here,” often […]
Tags: Authentic · Communication · Expectations · Respect · Trust
Communications Channels and Checks
July 8th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Let not check a communications channel using that same communications channel. It is pretty silly to do so. Since the great pandemic of the early 2020s, I have been part of countless ZoomerTeams meetings. Almost every one starts with, “Can everyone hear me?” Let’s pause and think. If a participant cannot hear […]
Tags: Appearances · Clarity · Communication · Conversation · Respect · Thinking
I Don’t Understand What You Are Saying
June 10th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes we just don’t understand when someone else doesn’t understand. I was recently attending a meeting online. This was one of those ZoomerTeams things where the PowerPoint was on the screen and the presenter was talking in a room with one of those microphones on the conference table. I couldn’t understand what […]
Tags: Clarity · Communication · Expectations · Honesty · Humility · Listening · Respect
Sharing Risk: What Do You Have to Lose?
January 25th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips In our personal lives, we often take all the risk without asking others to share it. The basic, but rarely asked, question is, “What does each person have to lose?” I am sitting here sipping coffee pondering what to do. Someone is asking me to wait, and wait, and wait. Perhaps they […]
Tags: Accountability · Alternatives · Conversation · Differences · Economics · Respect · Risk