by Dwayne Phillips We make rules. Why? Sometimes it is petty and to serve our ego. Pause and think (two pretty good rules about rules). We make a rule for or over or against the persons we know or our work colleagues. We cannot enforce that rule over all the persons who are supposed to […]
Entries Tagged as 'Respect'
Rules We Cannot Enforce
October 14th, 2021 · No Comments
Tags: Adults · Purpose · Respect · Trust · Work
Why Persons Don’t Become Vaccinated and How to Convince Them to be Vaccinated
August 19th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Many persons want many other persons to become vaccinated. Their methods, however, are achieving the opposite. “Become vaccinated,” is an oft-heard cry. (Actually, I read “get vaccinated” which brings cringes of pain to those of us who know the meaning of words.) And there are many who do not get the vaccine […]
Tags: Breathe · Communication · Conversation · Health · Listening · Patience · Please · Respect · Science · Virus
Thank You for Helping, but Enough is Enough
August 2nd, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Kind, caring, helping persons tend to keep going to be more kind, caring, and helpful. Delete the last part. I have met many kind, caring, and helpful persons, who love others. They speak and write and teach in all forms to convey helpful information. They want to be helpful, to ensure others […]
Tags: Breathe · Brevity · Clarity · Communication · Help · Respect · Time
Of Course They were doing That
July 15th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We sometimes are surprised at what some persons will do. We shouldn’t be. A recent story reminds us of an oft-repeated story: people will do that. Yes, even that. The recent story is about how some persons working at Facebook used their inside administrative privileges to “spy” on other persons. There were […]
Tags: Accountability · Excuses · Leadership · Management · Privacy · Respect
Internet Discussion Chaos and Semi-Public Groups
April 1st, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Where will we go for discourse on the Internet? Semi-public groups for forums work. I like Seth Godin’s recent short essay on trust and how folks use the Internet. Godin described the early (1970s) online interaction as, “Because each of these groups were high-trust communities, it was easy to conclude that the […]
Tags: Adults · Conversation · Ideas · Internet · Respect · Talk · Trust · Vocabulary
The Common Person
January 25th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Thoughts about all those folks out there who seem to be doing something that the experts don’t like. 1980—it was a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away when I heard a woman telling foreign dignitaries about the common person in America. I didn’t approach her and hit her with […]
Tags: Appearances · Fairy Tales · Integrity · Observation · People · Respect
Who Called First?
January 14th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Who wants whom? Who wants someone else’s attention or expertise? People tend to forget the answers. You called me. We called him. These mean something—important. We called him. We want his time, attention, expertise—we want something he has and we don’t have. The same when you call me. You want something of […]
Tags: Analysis · Influence · Questions · Respect
Silence is Complicity (not)
September 14th, 2020 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We have another variation of the “silence is agreement” notion. Let’s refute that notion—again. Looking back through this blog, it appears that I have written about this topic every four years. Once in 2012, once in 2016, so I guess it is time again. This time around “silence is complicity” is being […]
Tags: Appearances · Communication · Conversation · Justice · Respect · Thinking
Explain Yourself!
September 7th, 2020 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips One of the bigger compliments in the knowledge world in which we live is when someone wants to know what I know. “I don’t have to explain myself to you! I am a grand exalted expert in expertise and all grand exalted things!” said a frustrated expert when told, “Explain yourself.” I […]
Tags: Expertise · Knowledge · Respect · Teaching
The Art of Requesting Assistance
June 25th, 2020 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips We all need assistance in our work. There are requests for assistance that bring assistance. There are requests for assistance that bring nothing. We all need assistance in our work. Persons who can do their job well all the time are stalled in a job that doesn’t challenge them. There are requests […]