by Dwayne Phillips It is wonderful to see a small child see something wonderful. I sit in Starbucks typing these words on a Saturday morning. Now and then someone enters with a small child—a child small enough that they have to stand on their toes and stretch their neck to see what is in the […]
Entries Tagged as 'Wishes'
Seeing Something Wonderful
June 27th, 2024 · No Comments
Tags: Childhood · Hope · Simple · Thank you · Wishes
The Seemingly Under Qualified
March 7th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips History is filled with great accomplishments accomplished by people who shouldn’t be able to accomplish them. While not accomplishing great accomplishments, I find that I was almost always under qualified. I read history. Some would tell me that I read and reread too much history. One item I read repeatedly is someone […]
Tags: Choose · Competence · People · Success · Trust · Wishes
John, I am Upset
February 8th, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Here is one way to begin what is likely to be an unpleasant conversation. It lessens the unpleasantness and moves toward a more productive conversation. Let’s begin with, “John, I am upset.” (Substitute the other person’s name for John. That was the most alias of names I could find.) There, said the […]
Tags: Adults · Communication · Context · Conversation · Wishes
I Want People to Miss Me
January 22nd, 2024 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Much of what we pass off as complicated issues comes from something simple, the desire to be missed. I like to listen to the podcast of former Washington Post writer Tony Kornheiser. I laugh a lot while listening. Mr. Kornheiser is a big movie fan and follows the culture as he was […]
Tags: Change · Coffee · Culture · People · Thank you · Wishes
This Is Really Good
July 13th, 2023 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips This is really good (to someone on some day). And I don’t know who that someone is or when that day is. This blog post is really good. I felt great when I wrote it. The words flew through my fingers onto the screen and to the Internet. Wow! People will love […]
Tags: Help · People · Purpose · Teaching · Wishes
And What Has Changed?
May 4th, 2023 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips The passing of time is usually insufficient for a person to move from task to another. Sorry. Hopes and wishes are not plans. I have seen this time and again. A person is hired for one job with the qualifications needed for that job. A few years later, that person is moved […]
Tags: Change · Hope · Learning · Reality · Teaching · Wishes
Worthwhile Problems?
January 26th, 2023 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I see amazing solutions and advances in technology everyday. Are all these, however, solving worthwhile problems? I recently read about how persons at Nvidia created a system that modifies a live video so that the eyeballs of the person on camera point to the camera. This happens while the real eyeballs are […]
Tags: Choose · Engineering · Problems · Solutions · Technology · Wishes
Change Changes Things
September 6th, 2021 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips As much as we might not want to admit it, when one change occurs, everything in that system changes. Tech workers, who can work from anywhere, are moving to places with a lower cost of living and hence increasing their quality of life. This raises the average salary in those lower-cost-of-living places. […]
Tags: Change · General Systems Thinking · Hope · Systems · Wishes
I Want to Talking to You about Something
May 11th, 2020 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Sometimes, I want to talk with another person about something. Is that what I really want? I have heard a concern expressed in many ways, including: We haven’t talked about this We need to talk about this sometime I want to talk about this I want to tell you something These are […]
Tags: Communication · Conversation · Reaction · Talk · Uncategorized · Wishes
Wishes
April 5th, 2018 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips An exercise to do at work or anywhere that more than one person gathers from time to time. Caution: this is not for the faint of heart. Here is something to do at work or anywhere that more than one person gathers from time to time: Sit in a circle. Go around […]
Tags: Communication · Wishes · Work