by Dwayne Phillips I finally realize why I can’t watch the news on television: the information flow is relatively slow. I haven’t watched news on television in years. I stay abreast of the issues of the day via reading from the Internet. I scan probably a dozen major news sites as well as about a […]
Information Flow: A Problem with TV News
January 5th, 2012 · No Comments
Tags: Communication · Culture
My Hated Yellow Shirt
December 26th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Often, a seemingly illogical action has logic when something else is in play. One way to learn of what else is in play is to ask. I have a yellow shirt. Someone gave this to me a few years ago. I hate the yellow shirt because I think the color is awful. […]
Reality Applies to Us, Too
October 27th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips As much as we might wish otherwise, reality applies to us, too. I was recently speaking with a group of people age 13 to 60. My question was: How far back can you remember? The near-unanimous answer was, “age three.” Some people could vaguely remember some things that happened when they were […]
Tags: Culture · Judgment · Logic · Magic
Inflicting Advice
June 23rd, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Advice is welcome and often heeded in one circumstance: when it is requested. Freely giving advice to the non-requesting tends only to waste energy, time, and emotions. Consultant, author, and friend Jerry Weinberg has written (something like) Most people interpret attempts help as attempts to interfere. This is true for 98.6% of […]
Tags: Communication · Culture · Expectations · People
Identity Rules
June 6th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips An identity rule is something that I must have or must do or must be to maintain my identity. If you violate an identity rules, you lose your identity. People have rules, I know I have my own rules. Have you ever tied the shoe laces of another adult? That would be […]
Tags: Culture · Differences · Expectations · General Systems Thinking · People
Change the World – 0.04 – Smile
May 5th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips When you call me that, smile from “The Virginian: a horseman of the plains” by Owen Wister The statement above is one of the most misquoted from American literature, movie folklore, and culture. The misquote is: smile when you say that The implication is simple, if you are smiling, you can say […]
Tags: Change · Culture · Health
Be Prepared to be Unprepared
March 28th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I have learned that I am not capable of being prepared for everything. Hence, I have learned to be prepared for being unprepared. I often speak in front of people, lead discussions, teach classes, and generally attend meetings where people ask me questions. I am often unprepared for what people ask. I […]
Tags: Choose · Culture · Expectations · Learning · Meetings
The Law of the Average fill-in-the-blank-noun-for-a-person
February 21st, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Contrary to the Lake Wobegon Effect, the average fill-in-the-blank-noun-for-a-person is average. Something I recently realized: The average fill-in-the-blank-noun-for-a-person is average. Here are some examples: The average doctor is average The average teacher is average The average writer is average The average engineer is average and so on. This all contradicts the Lake […]
Tags: Culture · Differences · Expectations · Ideas · Logic · People
Technology and Gullibility
February 10th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Technology can be great. It is, however, made by people who are known to make mistakes. Don’t believe everything the sales people tell you about technology. I make my living from technology. I have done so for 30 years and going. So now I am going to write something that may seem […]
Tags: Culture · Technology
Get It Done (or not): Government vs Industry
January 13th, 2011 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips In my industry job, I see people making phone calls to obtain answers to questions right now. I never say that in 28 years of government. Here are some thoughts on the practice. I worked in government for 28 years. I have since worked in private industry for two years. A current […]
Tags: Communication · Culture · Government · Management · Meetings