by Dwayne Phillips It isn’t easy to admit that I lack knowledge for something that “I should know.” Most people are like me in this respect. How can I “help” without looking over their shoulder? “Maybe if you did it that way instead of this way,” said the eager, wanting-to-be-helpful person standing behind me and […]
Entries Tagged as 'Consulting'
I Hate It When Someone is Looking Over My Shoulder
December 20th, 2018 · No Comments
Tags: Communication · Competence · Consulting · Help · Humility
Don’t Try Too Hard
December 13th, 2018 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Some of the best advice I ever heard and heeded is simply, “Don’t try too hard.” Writing. Studying. Researching. Don’t try too hard. Writing: let it come out of you. When you hit a difficult spot, type “this is a difficult spot, come back later.” Done. Now keep banging away on the […]
Tags: Breathe · Clarity · Consulting · General Systems Thinking
An Interaction Exercise
November 2nd, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Here is a simple exercise you can use with your team to learn something about how well you work together. Step 1: Get a deck of playing cards. Step 2: Hand every person on your team some cards. Hand some person a couple of cards and hand some persons a dozen cards. […]
Tags: Communication · Consulting · Group · Management · Meetings
Ingenuity or Let’s Try Something
July 24th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips The day we fixed a supercomputer with a cardboard box. I suppose this post has to do with good old American ingenuity or some myth we like to create about ourselves. Regardless of myths and selective memory, this is actually a true story. On the job we had serial number one of […]
Tags: Computing · Consulting · Failure · Listening
Important Nonsense
May 22nd, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips When an otherwise rational person starts speaking nonsense—pay attention as something important is happening. People tell me how important a topic is to them by how they speak to me. Rational, logical, focused—nope. Not those adjectives. I am writing about important topics. When something is important, something burns inside. The heart quickens, […]
Tags: Breathe · Communication · Consulting · People
The First Few Minutes
May 11th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips Be alert when first meeting someone. You first few minutes are often the most valuable. Consultant and author Jerry Weinberg once told me, “Pay attention, your customer will tell you their problem and its solution in the first few minutes.” I have found this to be true, many times. Recent examples of […]
Tags: Consulting · Customer · Meetings · Observation
The Reframe or Perhaps We have this all Backwards
May 8th, 2017 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips One of the more beneficial techniques I have learned is how to reframe a situation or turn it around backwards or upside down. Is it (1) the donors aren’t giving enough money or (2) the leaders aren’t inspiring the donors. I hate my boss, so I should (1) become my own boss […]
Tags: Change · Communication · Consulting · Reframe
Neighborly
April 25th, 2016 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I encourage managers and other influence-rs to speak to their colleagues in the place where the colleagues are most comfortable. I encourage managers and other to speak with each of their colleagues. I find two points here: First, speak to your colleagues everyday. If nothing special is happening, talk about “the weather.” […]
Tags: Authentic · Consulting · People · Trust · Uncategorized · Work
Is This a Job Interview or a Consulting Session?
March 3rd, 2016 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I have been interviewed for jobs several dozen times in the last three years. Most “interviews” became free consulting sessions. The past three years have not been good for me and working at paying jobs. I am over age and over qualified. At least I soothe my feelings by telling myself these […]
Tags: Communication · Competence · Consulting · Employment · Expectations · Greed
Job Title: Stupid Hunter
September 21st, 2015 · No Comments
by Dwayne Phillips I’m not sure what the job title is, but every organization needs a person whose job it is to find the stupid that is hindering everyone. I have seen this every place I have worked. Somewhere in the greater organization, people—often smart, loving, caring people—are doing something that is just plain stupid. […]
Tags: Change · Competence · Consulting · Work